Monday, May 5, 2014

It’s Not about Fairness!

“So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed.
That, however, is not the way of life you learned when you heard about Christ and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
Ephesians 4:17-24
 
“It’s just not fair, they get all the breaks!”
Have you ever heard someone make that or a similar statement?
Maybe it has even come from your own lips a time or two.
If so, then you have probably also heard this spoken:
“Who said life is fair?”
The truth is there are a lot of things that happen in life to us and to others that is not fair.
For us as believers, though, it’s not about fairness but is about becoming like Jesus Christ.
Every believer will mature through the same spiritual process.
I did not say the same circumstances or even the same methods.
But you cannot mature as a believer without surrendering self.
What brings that surrender in your life could be quite different than what is needed to bring it in my life.
  There were experiences and circumstances that brought about a surrender to the will of God in Joseph’s life that were not at all like what David experienced but you cannot deny that both were in pursuit of God.
We tend to judge by our own experiences and circumstances and so when we start comparing what another person ‘endures’ compared to us we immediately start crying “Foul!”
“I had to go through this – why don’t they?”
Maybe it’s because God knows best!
Did you ever consider that?
Yes, even when it comes to the process of maturing as a believer; God’s path, no matter how different it may seem to be for you compared to others, is still the best way.
Suppose I said to you, “Let’s all meet in Venice, Italy on August 1st 2014 at 10:00 a.m.”
Do you think we would all travel the exact same route to get there?
Of course not!
Our destination may be the same but our starting point will be different and that will help to determine what we each have to do to arrive at that destination.
God knows what has to happen in your life in order that you might mature as a believer.
He make take you through some things that I never experience, not because He loves you more or less than me, but because He knows what it will take.
Do you trust Him with the process?
Let go of your recipe for your life and follow His lead.
His ways are perfect and His plans for you are good!

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